The Love Jones Cafe returned and if you weren’t in the building, then you missed out on a special evening. Presented by DCWKLY and the DCNIGHTS App, held at the swanky SAX Lounge, the Love Jones Cafe was a sophisticated soirée and a welcome departure from the typical nightlife scene here in DC.
The night began with El Lambert and The Band crooning guest with a variety of throwback and current R&B jams while guests were also treated to complimentary DeLeón Tequila and MtnDew Black Label cocktails and excellent service and bites by the SAX crew. Elegantly lit, the vibe in the house was palpable. Once the panel discussion began, let’s just say no topic was off limits.
Moderated and hosted by “The Massive Host” King Flexxa, the panel comprised of author and activist Tony Lewis, Jr, relationship blogger Diamond Mitchell, and the Duncan’s, Alfred and Sherrell, who were famously engaged and married all within 24 hours (Forever Duncan). Their insight was particularly insightful, engaging, and at times, hilarious. From the idea that reality TV has set unrealistic expectations for relationships to the “Netflix and chill”/”Hulu and Do You” generation, each panelist was able to provide personal stories as a backdrop for each topic discussed. And just like the movie, poet and spoken word artist Mr. Poetic Rock Star treated the crowd to his brand of word play.
I even gained some valuable information on love and relationships that I hadn’t even considered before. The predominantly female crowd laughed, cheered and at times added their own input for a lively and unforgettable evening. Fellas, you need to make sure you are in the building for the next Love Jones Cafe: not only was an ample amount of knowledge dropped, you could not deny the ladies showed out and filled the room with their beauty and radiance.
I leave you with some gems from the evening. Be sure to keep a look out for the next installment of the Love Jones Cafe, February 28th. Be there.
We should grow together, but you shouldn’t want your spouse to change your whole vibe for you –Tony Lewis, Jr.
There are certain thing you are not going to do if your intentions are pure. –Diamond Mitchell
If I tell you and you don’t do it, then we have issues.– Alfred Duncan
On Social Media:
I was in a relationship with my husband before we were in a relationship, so when he posted that picture I knew we were in a relationship.– Sherrell Duncan
It serves as validation because we are going public. — Diamond Mitchell
On moving on from past relationships:
In relationships and in life we are the sum of our experiences. You’ve got to learn from what you’ve been through.–Tony Lewis, Jr.
The hardest thing to do is self reflect and to own up to the thing that you did in the relationship.–Sherrell Duncan
Medicate each other with love.– Alfred Duncan
If you don’t feel confident in your decision making, you won’t feel confident in the one you picked.–Diamond Mitchell
On falling in love with potential:
If we are not speaking to the potential (of the other person) then we are really doing a disservice.–Tony Lewis, Jr.
Potential expires very quickly. — Diamond Mitchell
He’s pouring into me and I’m pouring into him.– Sherrell Duncan